tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post369624873916744343..comments2023-05-12T03:06:59.110-07:00Comments on STFU Fertiles: Pregnant fertiles crave beer; Infertiles just crave a babyMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14827590692827778824noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-2263826808789262962011-02-16T10:05:41.365-08:002011-02-16T10:05:41.365-08:00People asked me all the time if I missed alcohol w...People asked me all the time if I missed alcohol when I was pregnant. I told them that the weekend before the IUI, I drank enough to carry for 9 months. Just in case. <br /><br />It's important to plan ahead.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-37001771235423138962011-02-15T10:37:42.904-08:002011-02-15T10:37:42.904-08:00Kelly I bet that was really hard for your friend.....Kelly I bet that was really hard for your friend...and especially as an infertile b/c I'm sure a lot of people told her what they are telling this girl..."just have another asap and maybe it will be a girl". This particular girl has accepted and moved on VERY quickly from what I have seen, so I wasn't trying to offend anyone in a similar situation. And I did say I feel bad for her--just not nearly as bad as I have felt for so many women who have miscarried or gone through years of infertility.<br /> <br />Also the original point of this post was about someone recommending BEER to a pregnant woman(and the boy/girl thing a later footnote)...so let's not forget that ;)Cherbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18439877443069132853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-12958231495943575332011-02-13T21:40:09.141-08:002011-02-13T21:40:09.141-08:00I know someone with infertility this happened to a...I know someone with infertility this happened to and she was devastated And rightly so. Her entire pregnancy she bonded with her "daughter" spoke to "her" named "her" the nursery was done for a girl and at 38 weeks to preform an inversion her daughter became a son. And while healthy is the most important thing she did grieve the loss of the daughter she thought she was having. The dreams and plans of her daughter in dance school, sweet 16, late night girl chTs and watching her as a bride and mother herself. I felt so heartbroken for her. Maybe some of you don't get it but I do and a lot of other childless women with infertility do as well. I feel bad for your fb friend. I can't tell you that ur feelings are wrong because u feel them but I can say that they aren't very kind.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00392578643742059569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-17657414228597005402011-02-09T10:14:50.162-08:002011-02-09T10:14:50.162-08:00Loving your posts cherbear. You give voice to my t...Loving your posts cherbear. You give voice to my thoughts. And I'd love to see her boy sleeping on beautiful pink beds. haha.Keyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234168938842960525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-54668272299902648862011-02-05T17:55:17.659-08:002011-02-05T17:55:17.659-08:00HA, that made my night reading that. Evil yes, but...HA, that made my night reading that. Evil yes, but just a thorn in her side.<br />Oh boohoo, what will she ever do. She has to redo the nursery b/c she's having a healthy baby boy! Bitch please......LisaLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17757636046520334259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-64744171037489343312011-02-05T16:41:38.270-08:002011-02-05T16:41:38.270-08:00Sorry but the pink room and the blue baby made my ...Sorry but the pink room and the blue baby made my day! Ha ha! The babies sex is only found out by a sonographer and their bare eyes, humans make mistakes, so you would have to be insane to go colour the world pink! I'd be happy with either, so finding out the sex is something I'd never do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-66714186530744256892011-02-05T12:45:45.912-08:002011-02-05T12:45:45.912-08:00Jen soooo true!!! My cousin/bff doesn't even ...Jen soooo true!!! My cousin/bff doesn't even get it. When I said I was trying to stay away from caffeine, and that I wouldn't drink much of it while pregnant, she's like "Oh it doesn't hurt. I drank dr pepper all throughout pregnancy and Nathan is fine". I'm like, seriously?? You just DON'T know. They don't get it.Cherbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18439877443069132853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-61710439362031648322011-02-05T07:22:50.742-08:002011-02-05T07:22:50.742-08:00I'm not going to lie...I have beer and wine cr...I'm not going to lie...I have beer and wine cravings (even though I was really not a big drinker to start)...but never would I post it on fb and never would I actually drink anything!!! But you would be shocked at how many people tell me "oh one little sip is fine!". Seriously? You tell this to the infertile pg woman who is afraid too afaid to eat a hot dog, that a little alcohol is fine??? Get a clue...I'm so not a "normal" pregnant woman. Infertility forever changes the way you think...it doesn't stop at getting pregnant...it's frustrating how many "fertiles" don't get thatJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01188647040919744592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-89239528793574065122011-02-04T21:57:27.380-08:002011-02-04T21:57:27.380-08:00A guy would say something that stupid.A guy would say something that stupid.Holly Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17997242896526760676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-57965888838996770142011-02-04T20:20:02.475-08:002011-02-04T20:20:02.475-08:00I hate women who want to get their pregnancies ove...I hate women who want to get their pregnancies over so they could drink, and that ticks me off someone would even suggest drinking even one beer while pregnant! Can we smack them?Krystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17158984791521699151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-34317329705827345592011-02-04T17:14:13.769-08:002011-02-04T17:14:13.769-08:00Post more I say :D
And yeah, UGH at that comment. ...Post more I say :D<br />And yeah, UGH at that comment. Who the hell suggests to a pregnant woman to have a damn beer?<br />Really???LisaLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17757636046520334259noreply@blogger.com