tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post550956867194614446..comments2023-05-12T03:06:59.110-07:00Comments on STFU Fertiles: Educate Yourself Before You Speak.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14827590692827778824noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-68937259695182668332011-05-10T20:10:49.370-07:002011-05-10T20:10:49.370-07:00There are some losses listed in this article that ...There are some losses listed in this article that I didn't know how to put into words, but realize now this is what I felt with my miscarriage. I know there are women who don't understand this site and other than making it invitation only, there's not much y'all could do about keeping those people out. I certainly hope we all know the joy of having or adopting a child of our own very soon!Melissa @MotherhoodWantdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15324948102836257695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-63546101182547202472011-04-25T10:19:29.599-07:002011-04-25T10:19:29.599-07:00Well said!!
I've had 2 m/c and hopefully will ...Well said!!<br />I've had 2 m/c and hopefully will never experience another. <br />I miss that innocence I had when I got that first BFP. Thinking that it was finally it. And then my world came crashing down around me when the pregnancy didn't stick.<br />I couldn't even celebrate my 2nd BFP months later. I just sat around waiting for the worst to happen, and it did.<br />I want the confidence a fertile has. KNOWING that as soon as you get a BFP, it means you'll have a baby in your arms 9 months later. KNOWING that your body isn't going to fail you or that baby.<br /><br />Anyway.... screw all of the fertile haters who will NEVER know our pain.LisaLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17757636046520334259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-80325800911524281582011-04-24T15:56:02.958-07:002011-04-24T15:56:02.958-07:00I am not sure what was said, but anyone with any h...I am not sure what was said, but anyone with any human decency...would not have put anything offending. How come some people just can't shut their mouth...and let people speak their minds! It is a blog...that is what it is for...and if they do not like it...click away. Once again...just a perfect example of how some people without a heart or brain act in this fertile world...filled with so many of us IF's.<br />Blessings and I support you! So glad you all keep this blog up...I love it!!Carpentershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00904025579753951961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-4488114735591001412011-04-24T14:34:10.762-07:002011-04-24T14:34:10.762-07:00Bravo, bravo, bravo. Seriously, what is with the ...Bravo, bravo, bravo. Seriously, what is with the people who come to our "safe place" with insensitivity? I'm starting to think that we need a special handshake to avoid these people!Lori LeRoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01981773036545324499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-87574094602187735442011-04-24T09:41:57.935-07:002011-04-24T09:41:57.935-07:00I haven't even looked at the other comments wh...I haven't even looked at the other comments which are being referred to, but I don't need to. This is a place for women with common problems to vent and to come together in a way that is sometimes very sad, and sometimes very light hearted to help ease the pain that each is suffering. Anyone who feels the need to come in and attack obviously has no respect for other people and wants so make everything all about them. How much more pathetic can you get than seeking out a specific group who is not bothering anyone else and is leaning on each other for support - not asking anyone else for anything, mind you - and basically attack them for actually dealing with their grief and bonding together so as not to suffer alone? The phrase "Who do you think you are?" immediately comes to mind. I would have felt this same exact way before I suffered a miscarriage. If someone has enough time on their hands to go around seeking out people who are already suffering and kicking them while they are down, perhaps they should look for a new hobby.Mrs. Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16087668769897117088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-74848038677851053402011-04-22T19:59:24.093-07:002011-04-22T19:59:24.093-07:00You said it all...very well! The grief never ends...You said it all...very well! The grief never ends.<br /><br />I can't wait to read more. Thanks!Mr. Thompson and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17776375290138087387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-518832340761537982011-04-22T15:22:51.508-07:002011-04-22T15:22:51.508-07:00An insightful post. Thank you for expressing these...An insightful post. Thank you for expressing these feelings so eloquently. I'm in NZ too. I've only experienced some of those feelings, more to do with infertility and childlessness as I've never been pregnant.Kaitakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04755124499697549552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293616440385474098.post-13176273778775178912011-04-22T13:20:06.092-07:002011-04-22T13:20:06.092-07:00WELL SAID.
Having experienced 4 miscarriages and ...WELL SAID.<br /><br />Having experienced 4 miscarriages and no successful pregnancies, I have always been at a loss to describe how it feels each time my babies have left my body. The blood, the pain, the anguish, the shattered dreams and lost hopes.<br /><br />The grief and pain are palpable and real. <br /><br />Thank you for so eloquently explaining to the ignorant few what I go through EVERY DAY, five years after the first miscarriage. <br /><br />To the ignorant: It fucking hurts to be childless. So fuck off and leave us alone.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10892223595955789858noreply@blogger.com