If you happened to follow my blog, and also happened to read/overhear my situation with a former friend's pregnancy you may know I got a long, terribly shitty comment left by an anonymous reader this week. I now block comments from an anonymous readers, and have changed the name/url of my blog.
I won't rehash the entire shitty comment, but there was one part that really sticks out that I find almost comical. I REALLY wish I knew who left the comment so I could confront them about this statement:
"I wouldn’t even say you were infertile in this stage of the game you are having a difficult time getting pregnant."
Wow, really? I didn't realize you were the expert I was supposed to be listening to! Why don't I pull down my pants so you can take a good long look at my hooha to make sure it's just "difficult," not infertile as I have been told by someone with a medical degree. I guess that means that my doctor is an idiot, and the fact that I have had 7 medicated cycles FAIL, over $3000 spent on doctor's fees, meds, procedures, blood work, semen analysis & a HSG, and a total of 3 years trying just means I'm having a "difficult time." What a fucking idiot, and a coward for leaving an anonymous comment. Man up and let your face be seen instead of spewing a load of shit on my doorstep under a veil!
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Wow...what an inconsiderate jerk! I hear from people that I am not infertile...and then I have to school them on it. People are dumb.
ReplyDeleteI had people tell me (after a failed IVF, no less) that "once you stop trying, that's when it will happen." Oh, right, I had no idea that RELAXING my brain from TTc would help my husbands sperm swim faster. If only you had told me that months ago, we could have saved $13,000.
ReplyDeleteHate coward commenters!
ReplyDeleteLOL...yea, relaxing will make my ovaries produce eggs. Bwahahaha!
ReplyDeleteI am in awe of how strong some of the women are who have blogged their journeys. My journey is only two years, three IUI's, one HSG, two RE's, and $5,000 long. I gues that makes me a newbie, too. But it doesn't mean that our frustration, pain, and general hopelessness is any less real. Sometimes I wonder if I just don't want to move forward because I'm worried that I'm going to exhaust all of my options...it's a scary thing and you should be admired for helping the rest of us get through our own trials. Super-hug!!!
ReplyDeletePeople who leave anonymous comments piss me off! I mean it is one thing to have an opinion but it is another to not own it and shit on someone else's day.
ReplyDeletePeople - sheesh!